How to build self-esteem in your children

by Samantha Aguirre

1. Showing your children unconditional love

Unconditional love will show your children that you will always be there for them and support them when they most need it. When they mess up, make a mistake, or get in trouble, they should know that they can always count on you as a parent.

2. Allow your children to make their own decisions

Making every decision for them, and always saying 'no' will not work best in their favor. Allow them to make their own decisions, so they can learn to navigate the world on their own terms, even if it's not exactly the way you have it mapped out as a parent.

3. Have your children be responsible for certain things

For example, if you put them responsible for cleaning the kitchen table every night, it's their own responsibility, they will start feeling some sort of satisfaction and happiness rooting from their self-esteem when they do it every night. Small or large tasks, allowing them to be responsible for certain things around the house or in life will give them a great feeling of self-esteem.

4. Praise your children honestly and sincerely

When they deserve it, praise them! Let them know how proud of them you are.

5. Encourage your children to follow their own interests

When your children find out what their strengths are and what interests them, they will begin to feel a great sense of self-worth and happiness. If you encourage them to follow their passions and do what suits them best, they will thrive in life!

At Bay Aerials Gymnastics, we gently encourage children to reach their goals in a safe manner. We love seeing the smiles on their faces after they learn a new skill such as a cartwheel, or stick the landing on the mat! We love boosting children's self esteem and their personal feelings of self worth.